just finished feeding the little girl.. watching her making funny faces and noises while sleeping. its harder to burp her at night because she always fall asleep right after she is done.. so i will let her sleep in a upright position against my chest for 20-30 mins (some times longer when I fall asleep with her till her next feed.. hehehe) and put her in bed..

#themostblessedmoment

so fast and she will be going to be seven weeks old already! still feel like the first month except her weight is not.. lol..

its really daunting being a first time mom.. many people will be sharing their experiences and making me feel that i should do what they say.. but i am reminded by a nice papa of 3, that..

... every kid is different, dont fret.

so nowadays i ask myself first if that is what i want and keep calm if it does not work.. especially about making rosanne sleep through the night. some tell me that i should keep her awake during the day, while some says i should reduce her feeding from 5pm onwards so that she will keep waking up thus tired and will sleep through the night later..

well.. these are not going to work for my baby.. there was once she would not sleep in the day and was awake from about 5 in the evening till about 10 at night.. and then, she had a meltdown.. she cried non-stop and even when she fell asleep, she only slept for like 10-30 minutes. this continued till like 1am. poor girl.

reduce feeding quantity will also not work because she is a tiam jiak gui, like me! she will cry if there is no more food and she is still not satisfied.

so i asked myself why do i want her sleep through the night.. for me or for her? she is getting more "stable" nowadays, having feeds only 1-2 feeds at night. she eats lesser at night also, so a night feed takes about 30 minutes only. and the best thing? she falls back to sleep on her own!

so is it for me then? truth to be told, i want her to wake up for her feed at night. it was tiring at the beginning. she wakes up every 1-2 hours at night wanting to be carried, nursed, feed, changed and all sorts of other reasons. that was really tiring. but ever since she starts to wakes up only once or twice at night, it was more bearable and i enjoyed watching her feed and falling asleep refusing to be burp.. and since i cant be a SAHM, soon i will get to spend very little time with her. =( so every moment spend with her is very precious.

i believe that when she is older, her body allow her to sleep through the night. =)
so at the mean time, i am just going to enjoy myself.

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my confinement is officially over today! YAY!
yummy food here i come!

jelly: finally you can have normal people food.
me: what do you mean by normal food?
jelly: normal people dont eat food with a lot of ginger...

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seriously i dont know what she saw.. 

the crying baby is back! hahaha.. 

merry xmas everyone!

i think all mummies should go for post natal massage!! even if one dont believe about water and wind retention, they should still go for one!

it helps to relax the body. i didnt even how tired my back was till auntie suriati, the massage lady, started massaging me yesterday. after the session, my whole body felt so much lighter.

i just weigh myself earlier and i lost one kg after 2 sessions and my tight gap is back in town! yipee! btw, lots of people have been commenting that i lost A LOT of weight. truth be told, i hardly lose any after the first week. so 1kg in two days is really something. =)

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anyway my little 琳 has been really smiley today.

happy after her diaper change with 婆婆 and 二姨 to entertain her. 

just taken by her 婆婆 few minutes ago after her feed.

just a short post before the baby wakes up...

quite busy lately especially now that i can go out walk walk.. =)

rosanne is becoming more active and have started to communicate with us with her gurgles baby language. she also has learnt to seek attention! i wonder who she learnt that from.. lol.

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some photos we took yesterday.. =)

me and my fatty-bon-bon.. =)

the hubs and the little girl.

and i really think i suck at taking photo.. *bleah

i like the feel of the photo. 

though both of them are not looking at the camera and she looks like she is balding.. hehehe.. 

hello bare legs! 

i miss you! 30 days no see me, miss me?

hahahaha...

so fast 30 days just zoomed past and my confinement period is semi-over! just 10 more days of ginger food but what is ginger food compared to no shower, wearing long pants&sock 24/7 and no fan in the hot singapore climate!

its pure torture i tell you... especially the first two weeks.

i now realised how women lose weight post pregnancy.. sweat, pee and more SWEAT! i sweat like crazy in the first two weeks. dont move also will sweat.. and for the first week, mummy says no shower at all!? uber disgusting lor.. every time i bf her in the first week, my heart goes out to her.. so smelly!

i loss about 11kg in the first week - baby and water weight. =)
after that, i only loss 2kg.. 6kg more to my idea weight.
actually i am not obsessed with losing weight. i am more concern about my bulging tummy... if it can go away before the cny i would be more than happy. why? cus i will have more clothes to wear! i still can hardly fit into my pre-pregnancy pants... =(

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the weighing machine has arrived! 

so we weigh her and she is now 4.5kg! YAY! 

did some calculations.... 

dr rhonda says that rosanne should have 150 times of her weight of milk. 

so if she is 4.5 and 150 times of that would be 675ml of milk in 24 hours. 

and if she have 8 feeds per day, she should be drinking about 80-90ml per feed?

but she is having 120ml per feed nowadays and definitely more than 8 times per day... o.O

am i feeding her too much?

wanted to take photos of her in her pretty clothes which she is outgrowing them so fast..

took her in the panda oneies above and after one shot, she puke and then no more photo... 

=(

and i particularly like her in the below onesie... but she outgrew it too! =(

at 9 days old.

doesnt she look handsome in it?

yah handsome. =)

my happy baby. =)

another week had passed! and next week it would be a month already. thats fast!

this week, rosanne seems to sleep more at night. waking up only 1-2 times at night for feed. =)
but it is getting harder to make her go sleep nowadays. she gets cranky when sleepy and will not stop crying/wailing (depending how tired she is) until she find a nice position/spot to fall asleep. some times she wants to be pat to sleep, some times she wants to be a big girl and falls asleep on her own. lol

anyway this week i have trying hard to grow her cheeks but its so hard!

look at her fatty cheeks on day zero!

her cheeks yesterday. 

SHRUNK! =(

okie fine, other than fattening her cheeks for my kissing and pinching pleasure... its an indication if she is getting enough food. weighing machine is still on the way. lol.. anyway, i really dont mind she her being fat fat now cus baby gets sick often and would loose weight later. so now store up the fats first, otherwise later become skin and bones.. hehehe

anyway, just to make myself feel accomplished about fatten the cow her, she is growing out clothes! compare her wearing the rainbow onesies above (day 22) and the one below at day 5...

sexy shoulder showing.. hahaha...

anyway, she is getting less erratic, or should i say more predictable.. lol... feeds every 2-3 hours compared to the first two weeks where she sleeps for hours and refuse to feed. making me so worried.

i lately notice that she has this odd feed at 11pm. she will want to feed even though she just had her milk an hour ago.. the first time it happened when she was already 120ml and an hour later she wants to be fed again!? we tried not feeding her but she kept waking up and crying.. so she won and slept till 4am for her next feed! i then thought it was just a growth spurt but it keeps happening! o.O

she is also getting more "responsive" by the day. she seems to know what we are talking to her and she would sometimes reply with her gurgles that probably meant "keep quiet!" lol

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anyway we will be having her red egg and ginger party tomorrow! so excited! =)
hopefully she will be 乖乖 and open her eyes more often. hahaha...

a sneak peek!

her shoes are finally ready! =)